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In life, you get what you ask for.

Today, I want you to ask yourself, “What am I worth?” You know today we live in a world of “What we can get?”, “How can we receive it?” “What will it take to be the receiver?” This is it, you are the decider of your destiny, and you are the one who will choose what you receive in life.

I was walking to my car last night; I had just purchased some Indian take away for dinner, just as I got into my car, This lady came up to me asking for the exact amount of $3.90 for a bus fair, I looked at her eyes, I only had 50 cent in change on me at the time, I said to her “before I give you this 50 cents, just listen, if you only want $3.90 in life you will only receive $3.90, here’s what I have in change” the lady said to me as she was about to walk away “oh ok, thanks” in a monotone voice but with her eyes looking straight at the taxi cab parked behind me gleaming for more of the $3.90. I know that she didn’t understand me; all she could think was $3.90. But what I was trying to explain to her was if you only think that you are worth nothing in life, you will only receive and feel like nothing in life.

If you want $10 000 in life, sooner or later you will get that $10 000, if you only want $ 500 in life, you will only receive $500 in life every time. A person should always look at the bigger scale in life first, instead of just looking only at what’s in front of them.

Believe you are worth more than you think and the world is yours in return.


Take focus of your self

I woke today feeling enlighten with myself, I will be 29 this year and am starting to realize that life is so very short, we live in this world of endless days as we like to think? we have what we have from life from our decisions in which we have made. I am where I am because of the decisions that I have made in life. I have and will always try to better myself; it is I who will face the future and I who will deal with the challenges and opportunities in life. One thing which I have always had in my life is self-confidence, I not only believe that self-confidence helps me power through the day, I know it helps me power through the day.

I am telling you this because; I want you to realize that it is up to you to create that inner strength of strong will self-confidence. You are the one who will build this ability to realize that you are the most self-confident person in the world. Once you make that change of self-help, you will begin to realize that life isn’t that hard, it is all just a ray of challenges and opportunities. Life is what it is and it will always be something of a challenge. But it can and will get better for you, providing you change and build your way of thinking to a more confident outlook. You can be the greatest you ever want to be, but it is entirely up to you to change it today.

Become the beginning

Isn’t life funny, we are born the way that we are born; we have no say in how or what we are going to turn out to be. It just happens, you are born whoever you are. You are born a male you are born a female. Your skin colour is what it is, your eyes are what they are. Even your hair is what it will be. We as babies have no say in what we will turn out to be. It just happens. But, and there always is a but.

You are born with the capability to become and have the up most confidence, to become the greatest that you can be. You have the free will to become the most confident person in the world. It’s your life, you become your beginning. I have always said, if we were meant to be here for a long time, the Earth would be bigger. But we’re not, we all have our own destiny and mission in life. It is our mortality that puts our existence as living human beings in to perspective.

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Knowing your self-control is part of knowing your self-confidence, it is a part of controlling your personality, so you can focus on your self-confidence. Having self-preparation is key in ownership of what you want out of life. Remember you are the leader and controller of your self-confidence. You are the one who makes the difference to your self-success, There-fore you must prepare and control your focus on owing your beginning of self-success, conquering that and the world of upbeat confidence is yours.

“Creating will power of self-control is the first step in owning your self-confidence, it all begins with self-control”.

Self-control leads to self-confidence and self-confidence leads to self-success; self-control is by the far the first step of owning your self-success. By focusing on your self-control will lead to your self-success, in which will give you the power to become who and what you want in life.

Mind power

Communication is key, time is everything. Mind power is the answer. We live in a world of poverty, survival, plentiful and greed. It is your choice on how you approach the decisions which are brought forward to you. It is entirely up to you on how you propose the power within your mind set.

Don’t listen to others, listen to your instinct. Make the right choice on owning your future. You are the lion heart of your self-success; it is you who will conquer all that you wish for. You will make the decision of owning your future. Stand tall and become your self- success. Believe in yourself, it is the key of greater success. No matter how hard the task, you will accomplish and become greater than you ever have before.

Remember, self-motivation is the first step of self-success.

Today is yours, own it.

Isn’t funny how the days that we have lived, the things that we have done are just a vivid memory, when you take a photo of someone, some thing or somewhere. You are capturing that moment in time. When looking upon that photo, that moment is just a spare glimpse in what was happening at that time. We as living mortals are here on this big beautiful planet for just a glimpse. Time and life is shorter than you think, it is but just a glimpse in this giant living existence of other species and other living creatures. There is no time like the present, today is the time to change and succeed all, and you are a legend in your time of existence, create your destiny. Challenge yourself, become one with your future, realize that you are a self-improving machine, take control of who you want to be.

Look at what your key focus in life is and own it to its fullest extent, be passionate on who you want to be and what you want to accomplish. The time is now to create a wonderful life for yourself, remember, you can do it, and you will be a self-success on whatever you accomplish. Today is yours, own it.

Do not let jealous people take over your life.

Today, we live in a world of uncertainty, disbelief and jealously. It is the soul core of scared people; you will start to realize that we as everyday people are facing a world of crisis, whether it is natural disaster, global warming or the global financial crisis. This day of age is becoming a time when people become scared and jealous in some way. They are feeling the pressure of uncertainty. People are becoming bitchier and more back stabbing in today’s times. They are becoming hateful and jealous at others. For example let’s say at your work place, have you ever noticed when you are talking to someone about some sort of work problem then all of a sudden the person you are talking too says “did you hear about Kevin and Stacey in the office bathroom at the Christmas office party”. This is a case of gossiping, in which it is when people who have nothing interesting in their life begin to tell stories to enhance more thrill in their very dull life. Remember, those who gossip to you, gossip about you.

Gossipers are jealous small minded people who have nothing else interesting in their life; they need such events like these to keep their life interesting. It is essential that you as a confident strong mined person do not let anyone hurt or insult your way of self-purpose, your way of strong confident thinking is a fuel source. You will use this to protect and build a successful career in whatever you want to be or whatever you want to achieve.

Today is the day of self-accomplishment, this is your day. No jealous person or gossipier will get in your way. You are a strong and successful warrior.

Visualize your “Self-Worth”

It all begins with something grand, something that begins with a mighty boom, it’s life and human existence in general. Why does this all begin? Why are we here?

What is your self-worth? People have this way of boosting their self-confidence on knowing of whom they are and what they are worth. It is a continuous reinforcement of knowing what they are about. This knowledge of one’s belief is a strong way of boosting your confidence; it can generate a self-belief of who you are and what you are about. It helps you realize in what you have  achieved and what more you can achieve. We as human beings are extremely powerful, we have the willpower to do what we want and be who we want to be. Humans are an amazing creature; whatever a human person believes in and does the human person can do and be.

It all begins with a giant boom of self-confidence. “The force is strong with this one”As quoted by Darth Vadar from the original Star Wars movie series. Having that capability of knowing that you can start off the day with a strong force of self-worth and self-confidence will give you an instant boost of knowing who you are and who you want to be. It is the beginning of something big for one person, the realization of what one person can be. You will realize that you are more than what you think you are, you are the one that changes it all for yourself. You will begin to realize that you can accomplish anything, and that you have the power to achieve every goal you have ever wanted.

Become your Self Success.

You know, one thing I have always done is be a believer of who I am and who I want to be. It has always been my “self-fuel juice”. It has helped me overcome challenges and hard decisions over the years of my existence. I am tough, I will conquer anything that defies me in anyway and I will succeed.

Today, I want you to look at how you visualize yourself, how do you see yourself as you approach different challenges and hard decisions. Are you a “go to person”, a “Yes Person” or an “I don’t know person”? Remember, do not under estimate what kind of person you are, you are a strong and powerful being. You have the power to succeed to the finest of your ability and beyond.

Don’t give up hope, always believe you are “King of the world”. Know that you are a strong willed force not to be reckoned with. “Why?” You ask, Why not? I say, because every one else are just like you, you are the one who decides who you are and who you will be. You are King and Conqueror of your Universe. Take that sub conscious of yours and visualize your empire, take charge and succeed.

Create passion.

What are you passionate about?

Creating one’s passion is an important step in life, as far as human existence has begun; People have become passionate in what they love and what they believe strongly in. Howard Hughes once said “I wanted to see New York . . . so I tried to see how fast I could do it in.” This passion that Hughes had with the advancement and evolution of aviation was in my opinion as strong as oak. If you as a person can create such passion, such immense ability to be passionate about what you want and what you want to be the best at, you will find that you can have complete happiness in what you enjoy and what you will enjoying doing.

Creating passion and having passion are two different things, when you create passion for something you work hard at it. When you have passion for something you are born with it. Today, I want you to rise up and really look at what you are passionate about, what is your true calling in life? Look at what you do in life and what you believe you are passionate about in life. If you think, you are not born with passion then create a passion for something that you will enjoy doing.